Embrace Your Shadows and Your Light
with Playful Desires
Workshops, Parties, Coaching and Experiences
Explore the full spectrum of your Playful Desires
Enjoy yourself and each other
OK, enough waffle. What does Playful-Desires do?!
I facilitate incredible experiences and spaces so that you can live out your most playful-desires and meet other like minded people, as part of our community.
It is my mission to help people rediscover their beautiful, innocent self expression through play.
Each month I run a different workshop, often based in Bristol, often based on an aspect of BDSM. I call these workshops 'Caring Kink'. I also run daytime-playtime parties a few times a year to bring the community together.
My other passions are Authentic Relating, Mindful Dating and Addiction Recovery. I believe we an have all our crazy desires but still be wholesome, present and loving at the same time.


The work of Playful-Desires is about reconnecting us to our innocent and playful selves, but as adults. By creating safer spaces we facilitate individuals and groups to play together and embrace their shadows, their light and transmute all the stuckness into joyful creativity.
If you'd like to be part of our community please come to an event. There is no substitute for real-life experience!
How May I Serve You?
I have three key offerings:
Group Experiences and Workshops
I'm proud of the spaces I create. I always try to curate experiences that I longed for when I was first exploring my erotic and playful desires. Now they are here, for you, to connect you to a set of sexy skills and an incredible community.
Daytime Playtime Parties
I help people to connect to their playful sides, both individually and in relationship. I help people to drop the performance anxieties and really come into atonement with their deepest longings and pleasure.




We don't have to wait for the night time to have fun and connect. We can do it all day long and enjoy this wonderful community.
Coaching For Individuals and Couples
Don't just take it from me. Hear the people speak:



I have three key offerings:
People really love this work and you will too...




Neil’s workshop created a uniquely relaxed space for me to feel safe in exploring new aspects of my sexuality. The combination of playfulness and taking it seriously as a practice where people have to be both vulnerable and brave was exactly what I needed as a beginner kinkster.
Ruth
★★★★★