A full day of play!
"Play is our brain's favourite way of learning." - Diane Ackerman “The highest form of research is essentially play.” – N. V. Scarfe
“The opposite of play is not work. It’s depression.” – Brian Sutton-Smith
“Maturity consists in having rediscovered the seriousness one had as a child at play.” – Friedrich Nietzsche
“The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct.” – Carl Jung
Play is at the heart of every human being, and we don't need to wait until the evening. We can play all day!" - Neil Morbey
🌿 What is Daytime Playtime?
Daytime Playtime is a spacious, welcoming container where you’re invited to touch, play, relax, and bring out your kinky parts – within clear boundaries.
We’ll begin with a 90-minute workshop (about 20% of the day) to help us all land together and create a shared culture of care, consent, and connection.
We are aiming for 30-50 people.
We have two floors of play!
Hall of Hedonism (Ground Floor)
This space is for energetic, expressive, and embodied play, including dance, movement, and high-energy connection. It will have music and a dancefloor, a giant red St Andrews Cross, squishy areas for wrestling or other play.
Velvet Underground (Downstairs)
Our soft and sensual play space, designed for slower, gentler, and more intimate forms of connection. This is also where we will keep the long table of toys for sharing.
Plus we will have a basic kitchen (microwave, kettle and sink) and a large table for shared food downstairs — please be mindful of others when moving between food and play spaces
ALL WELCOME.
It's ok if you've never been to a kinky workshop or if you're a seasoned pro. The workshop will help us all get on the same page to bring in care, consent and connection into our play. Remember too that 'play' can look like ANYTHING, including cuddling, chatting, rambunctious dancing, slow sensual connection, dark BDSM exploration, shame play, tying and holding, giggling... there isn't a 'right' way to play, except that we ask you to bring in care, consent and connection into everything you do.
We will have a big community of people who have been to the workshops before, but even if you haven't been before that's ok - we can all help each other to play in a caring kink way.
Don't be late
As the workshop begins we will close the doors to anyone , so DON'T BE LATE. We will close the party at 6pm and leave the space by 7pm. Some of us might go for food after here: https://www.brewhouseandkitchen.com/food-drink/ or urban tandoori https://maps.app.goo.gl/v1zPGJ62JxD5P9gVA
Boundaries of Play
This is a pants on play space (for now). No touching or revealing of genitals or anus. The reason is I want to encourage all types of sensual, creative, connecting and kinky play, but without rushing to genital based sex. Nothing wrong with sex, I love it. I just want to slow us down and be together for a little longer, so other parts of us get to be explored. I also am not ready to hold a space that has full sex as things become increasingly complex.
Clothing
Feel free to wear anything that makes you feel sexy and happy. This is often an area we get a lot of questions. Rest assured you can come as you are. I suggest bringing a variety of clothing. I'll send an image board of sexy things people have worn in the past
What else will happen?
Shared food table
Please bring something to share, with ingredients clearly labelled.Two rooms for play
The hall of hedonism for hgh energy play and the basement velvet underground for softer play.Chill out space
We will have spaces that allow you to pause play and chill out. In these spaces we ask you to refrain from snogging, playing and loud talking. Keep is gentle and grounded.The wall of offerings and desires:
Where you can write your own or see if someone wants something that you might be curious about. The workshop will introduce this. It will be in the Hall of Hedonism.Playbus Stop
Next to the wall of offerings and desires is the place you can wait to get on the next play bus. Anyone pausing here are open to play. If you see someone at the Playbus stop maybe you can pick them up for some play? Be brave and ask them if they’d like to play.De-stimulation Room (Upstairs)
This room is only for de-stimulation and regulation.
Please use it if you need quiet, rest, grounding, or nervous system support.
It is not a space for chatting, socialising, or play. I’ve asked the assistants to pop their head in every 20 mins. Please clear the space once you’re a little more grounded.
